His Wife…

His Wife,

She is His wife ,

Wife of the one who don’t works ,

Don’t Have a job ,

Don’t Have a business ,

Don’t Even Have any Assets to look at.

She is the one who has to look at her In Laws for the basic requirements,

Yes For Food, Clothes, Bills And What Not.

Yes She is his wife,

She has been taunted for every single slice of bread and tea they sip.

She is His Wife, Wife of a Jobless,

Jobless, but more because of his unwillingness to do work.

Somewhat sounds like a Wife of a Worthless.

She can’t Smile freely, as it require happiness.

And She is not Happy at all,

Like Every Lady she wants her Partner to do good in every aspect.

She can’t sit in the group of ladies,

Because She has everything which she can’t hide and nothing which she could show.

She can’t evolve with people,

can’t sit and stand freely at any place.

Can’t demand,

Can’t Purchase,

Can’t Even feel the need of having a Dinner at Restaurant.

She is his wife,

Being His Wife is Tough,

It came to her without her choice but yes as a fate,

Hope he Understands it,

And Works Hard to Raise her head high among many..

if not, she should find a way to deal with it.

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There is no point to Diminish your own Self Respect.

I Feel..

I Feel,
That mostly People are Good but they have that unnecessary attitude , which makes them alone and avoidable.

They should Chop it to the end, to do more good things in their life, as it defines you more when you behave ,

The most successful people have been those whose attitude have been enigmatic by being humble,

the people who are more inclined towards ego, arrogance and of course proud ends up doing nothing though they’re potentially talented.

Sometimes it is your behavior which drags you down , and sometimes its the same which lifts you Up.

It is not new that the people with lesser talent have been preferred over someone with much more talent , just because of the arrogance, and attitude the talented individual has.

So, Your attitude actually defines you in life .

One can learn the things gradually but your etiquettes should be Perfect even if you are slow,

You can’t argue or misbehave with  your teacher just because you have secured good marks in the previous class out of many students,
you have to keep your feet grounded, and have humbleness to learn and gain more in life.

Think about it Sir/Madam.

On a Serious Note…

The Way these so called Kids are using  their sick  brains is not good at all, this is not acceptable, we are  already going through a very tough time,

And something like this in between is even more painful and disturbing.

I don’t know which school they go,
what they  have been taught,
what their parents are doing ,
where they stand in their life,
what they feel about the whole incident,
but this is seriously very cheap and disgraceful,why this happened ,
what are the psychological reasons involved in it we don’t know , 
but this is very shameful..

Yes I also feel that the social media platforms should have an eye on the things which are obligatory,

And should not allow individuals to post and share things which are offensive by any parameter of society.

Even if it is an abusive language, should be completely prohibited,
As everyone holds responsibility  to make a good society, so it starts with you , me and then with she and he. And so on.
I do believe that we have the need of sex education in our syllabus, it is high time now, we can’t wait to things get better, we have to bring the results with our efforts.
we have to curb the explicitness of public platform, even the advertisements are so pathetic nowadays,  we can’t even sit at the same place with family at certain times. This is so disturbing.

The content has to be blamed along with the broadcasting authorities.
And The way we are accustomed to social media, television, online studies, etc it is a very serious responsibility of the individuals who have the authority to actually check the content, language, advertisements, etc associated with it.

Moreover as a responsible citizen, one has to understand that every person should be treated with respect and dignity.
You have no right to speak or write anything which is degrading and derogatory.

Abusing, Trolling, Defaming, Blackmailing, etc on public platforms  should be  strictly prohibited by the public platforms itself .

Criminal charges should be imposed  on culprits regardless of their ages.
And this should mentioned in the disclaimers to stop cyber crimes.

Think About it.
Thank you

HELLO 2020

Hey, Hello 2020 …

Welcome,

Welcome to this beautiful world …

Okay , so here I wish you all a very happy new year, may you all live your life with utmost happiness , health and satisfaction.

May all the goals and aspirations get accomplished, may you all find the ways to grow more in every prospect of life.

Also i welcome and greet the brand new year i.e 2020 to our lives,

As we all want to grow and make 2020 a benchmark year.

Let’s leave the bad memories behind and carry forward the positives from the previous year.

Let’s believe in our abilities more than counting excuses,

let’s stay and stick with positivity, purity and persistence.

Let’s smile More than yesterday and plan tomorrow, with living full of life today…

All The Best, keep smiling , Have Fun. 🙂

Happy New Year to all.

There After a Decade..

Okay ,Good Evening Guys !

so I visited the same place. Same temple and clicked the photograph with the same pose. Which and where I was exactly 10 long years ago,
this time to celebrate the 5th birthday of my niece, Janvi.

But now, it has been me and only my family not the one who was with us 10 years ago with unofficial permission.

Like everyone says time flies.
I accept it. Time flies and the situations do change.
Smile remains there but question is about the genuineness of it.

It was not easy to do but did to show to the world and the people around that everything is fine to me now. And I am above such sentiments.

Deep down, silently my heart being the usual human heart was pumping at a speed more than the usual sprint of a horse.

I  Asked to click images randomly so that I could have the best one in the gallery.
But not even a single PIC was good to have. As the smile was fake and my eyes where not ready to face camera, may be heart was not liking it and the face was not supporting my forced Instincts.

Everything there was same to same and I recalled every single moment of mine there a decade ago.
Be it roaming everywhere around there with wheels on my legs, playing stupid pass time games or even captivating energy for some useful work and some how bringing out that WE moments in between.

The roads,The people, the ambiance, the staying rooms, the Temple and of course the God.

Yes I have been a teenager by then and very very care free monk.,with some good etiquettes which I still have,by being real and raw sometimes at heart.

But this time. I have been quite silent  matured rather say changed version of mine,
silently observing everything what was there then and now, also my little eyes went for some tearful ride as well when was alone as I have been mostly by being with many with a reason and with a purpose more personal.
10years ago, never thought about this visit nor the circumstances I am around with, never felt that I have to face such realities in love with hate and cheat.

Forget about it.

I really feel that it has been heavy on my heart at that moment but when I rethink about the same I feel good about it. That overcame my very own created barrier. And surpassed this hurdle.

Anyways ,
Happy Birthday Janvi(Niece).

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Thank you

Start Doing…

Where you stand today,

Do you think is the place where you wanted to be.

What you are today,

Is it The same you wanted to be.

How it feels to find yourself in the wrong place ,

Or the place which is not where you wanted to be ..

Isn’t it draining when you turn and see where you stand in the crowd

And what they have expected from you,

The fighter within you has surrendered or what?

Or you think you can still fight against all the odds?

Are you habitual now ,

Habitual of comprising your dreams,

Habitual of loosing and explaining the reasons of your failure.

Or you have the spark still somewhere which gives you the reason to leave the bed in the early morning and conquer again,

That fire to stay awake and pursue your dreams,

Is it there?

Are you still the same …?

Yes You’re,

And it is there,

Just stay motivated

And be focused.

Above all

Stop Wishing, Start Doing.