But, the fact which does not require any evidence to get proven is that we neither fail, nor fall, we dont win , or loose , we are not this not even that, we dont do anything , we just cant do anything, we are not achiever not at all a conquerer…
We all are just medium of the proceedings,
the wins ,the defeats , fails, failure, achievements And what not everything is driven by god we our acts, and exixtence is concieved by the god, we are just mere mediums, we are foolishly putting ourselves into centre and seeking credit of everything thats happening by the god’s creation.. we are nothing but just the creation of god..
Everytime When You Think , Its not Possible…. You Think, You can’t Do, Just Find the Right Reasons of Doing it. Dont Judge the Process With Hurdles, PLAN PREPARE PERSIST Believe in your Dreams.. Believe in your Passion. 》RPR
Once Upon a Time There was a Little kid Who wanted to remain Happy for life,
Life sometimes listened his voice , sometimes asked him tough questions, he remained smiling always , though he could not make anyone happy, but yes he choose to stay happy in every little and small happenings,
practically he was going through a lot but it never made him down, his self esteem and confidence was always there to think clear about his choices ,
he never compromised,
he never begged,
he never felt small ,
he has been asked many questions, few he prefered to answer many he ignored,
people were against him, situations were not favouring him, but he remained the way he wanted, tried again after every disappointment, the hustle was always in silence ,
He always believed in him and the supreme power .. who actually stood by him to cross the lines, rivers and mountains,
he fell , he stood he got tired,ignorant,negligent, rusty and dumb ,but still felt of thinking the way he used to think, which was not practically good but his choices were his prefered choices which he wanted to percieve with…
Life is a journey were we learn ,unlearn, relearn, and this is how the journey of that little boy is going on,
he is imperfect, he prefers to be a perfectionist,
he preaches ,he is lazy ,
he as a human is not sweet if you are bad to him, but he will help you his heartout if he feel to do that,
he could be me ,he could be you, we are the ones who are trying to find an arc of success , and the life filled with happiness….. 🙂
people are always there to judge you, question you as many as they can .
Just answer the ones you want, leave the remainings with a smile . Never Feel the need of Finding answers to answer people.
Today, I was going through few random posts in the form of video, then suddenly i have seen a video of a lady who herself is an author and a radio presenter, infact she has an experience of over 20+ years in the profession and also one of Jury of Best Author selection committe in india by the indian governement , so listening to her was not a waste of time for me, so after the completion of video i have observed that we both have some similarities i.e in terms of opinions on the context of video, We both were standing at parallel sides in our way of thinking, and i felt that i should put this as blog post to talk and discuss more about it,
The Video was a kind of podcast from the lady herself in which she was demonstrating her side of feel and concern for the boys who were been charged in Some cases related to girls in which they were never guilty , never did any sin but paid the price for being the boy, She said some no. Of cases are proven that there was no mistake found but the life of the boys have completely destroyed because of the unfair advantage given to girls for the sake of girl power and women empowerment. Even if the boy gets a clean chit after years of legal fight his image gets shattered, the society looks at him with serious hatred , he has to face all the pain and boycott from the known and unknown people, the mental peace and Reputation Is Scattered , and Yes many of the Boys dont afford the Cost involved in fighting for himself in indian jursidiction, as it takes time and has alot of layers beneath the layers.
According to the video , The boys are not always criminals sometimes girls are the one who misuses certain sections of law for their own selfish motive , it could be out of anger or a purpose of putting the individual in some sort of trouble, or a grudge with which one is finding it as point of fixing it for her own good, I rememeber one of my post “Just Because We Are Boys“ in which i have observed, and highlighted same sorts of points and issues of boys who are being judged by society on the basis of their gender.
PEOPLE, Society and Government are very concerned about the injustice been done to girls and women, which are good and should be done as it is the must need because of the crimal cases on daily basis, i do feel that women empowerment is a much needed things of our society , every girl should be protected, every girl should feel safe, and Bloom in the best of her potential and individuality,
But No one should get paid for all the good things and measures taken for girl and women empowerment, The laws should be fair for both boys and girls as there are familes both sides, there are responsibiltities both sides. No one should feel partial no one should feel bad for being in the other side of the law, we do want our girls to get empowered and safe, But this empowerment should not give anyone any wrong advantage .
Everyone’s life , Everyone’s reputation, Everyone’s family and Everyone’s mental peace is equally important, As we all want in LAW.
There is a fine line between girl empowerment and disadvantage to the men which has to be addressed, no one should get any advantage on the basis of his/her gender, as it somehow weaks the equality of society.
An Innocent Should never pay the price for all the unknown things/ deeds which he or she never did, And the Culprit should never get rid of the consequences which she or he did. Justice should be on the basis of facts and truth not on the basis of prejudices and general talks or previous cases.
Hello World , Meet me someday My name is something which is absolutely not important, what more important is why and what am talking to you all, lets not make this formal, because i hate formalities,
I with all my responsive and decently functioning sense organs and blood vessels with some high voltage Emotions mentioning that i feel i am someone who is very good in making errors infact repeating them in some another way without any learnings.
I feel it is my responsibilty to be fair with my acceptance i have no shame to speak about the right things which are actually wrong,not here to get any sympathy from anyone, just wanted to share it to put some water and treat my wounds.
In the process of acknowledging my supremacy, i am not i am not pointing out the errors as they are countless but yes i can tell i am the one who suffered it the most along with the people of my surroundings,
frankly speaking i am very tired of standing against the flow of wind ,
sometimes i feel, most of the times i dont even realize for years, usually i feel like how i did, but i laugh on myself though for being so wrong again,
but everytime when i am alone i hate my self for being so bad with my choices and decisions, i find myself helpesss, dull and devastating, still i dont learn i commit more errors and feel the same again,
they say we learn from our mistakes, but they dont say we make more errors but yes not in the same way..we dont repeat thats ok in a way but we make errors somehow differently than the previous ones.
Errors are parts of life but when your life is filled with errors, then their is a problem somewhere, which has to be addressed else you are going to be remembered as an Errorist.
Around 1830s, In A Kingdom called Udhampur, There was a man, popularly known as Vikram was living in the sub-divided villages.
He was professionally a cobler, used to make and stitch the shoes of common men, and also of the bonafide persons of kingdom,
He always believed in helping others whether they are known to him or unknown to him,he never discriminated in lending the helping hand to the people in need.
He felt that real satisfaction of his life is to make people feel good about the presence of another human being around, it could be a moral support , emotional support, and also monetary support.
He was popular and also considered as someone who could comeup with solution to everyone who reaches out to him for seeking a help in any problem.
But by doing so he never looked at his own life.
He remained poor and absolutely unchanged in his daily life although he was working for the palace of king and paid good for the service he usually did ,but he opted for a selfess social service.
But As there is a Problem in everything what we do, Few around him were not happy with his popularity and reach among people, they felt it is tarnishing the image of king ,as poor people felt going to king for a help is very tough than going to Vikram,
so these jealous people started their unnecessory adaptations against him and presented him as a cheater to king infront of king.
The alegations like cheater and person with some hidden desires and tresures were applied on him. There were many theories came that he a tually wants to show the king that he is not a good king or even a man with better admistrational skills than king.
few even laughed at him for his life, as he was poor and living a very miserable life with poverty, but has the tendency of helping others with his earnings, few considered it as a show off and few even stated that he has alot of money hidden somewhere with which he is doing some amount of help to people to earn a good name and diminsh the importance of king.
After listening all the allegations, the king finally asks with some anger and confusion ,
what is this all upto ?
are you really looking for helping people or you have some hidden desires , ?
do you feel that i am not a good king,?
do you think i am not approachable?
Do you think yourself a king, do you have alot of money to feed them?
Do you have ang tresure somwhere?
Are you getting any advices from the kings of other kingdoms?
For which vikram remains silent for a while and then says ,
Firstly i am not trying to diminsh your importance not even have any such intentions,
i am not getting any advices or helps from any, i really dont have any money, or any tresure,
i dont have any hidden desires not even any agenda,
i am no one to feel or have any opinion about your admistrational skills, you are my king and i know that from my birth.
Also i know the fact that i am just a cobbler not a king,
but what i also know is that you really dont need alot of money, or tresure to help a person next to me ,
you really dont need to have any personal desire to help a person in need, and above all you dont need to be a king to look for the people around you,
i feel that a good heart and pure soul is enough to do good to people next to you, you dont need to have a kingdom, not even the need of adminstrational skills.
It has nothing to do with my loyality towards you and kingdom,
it is just my humantarian effort for making my surrounding happy,
i wont mind if people feel it a propaganda, or they feel i am idiot or actually laugh at me, i wont mind if they consider me as a king or a cobbler,
what i know better is that i am human being first without any other label of professional duties and its limitations.
The king looks at him and smiles with sheer happiness, i am very happy to have a person like you in my kingdom, you really taught everyone that it is not a need of a position or profession to do your basic humanitarian responsibilites, everyone has their job to do for the happiness around themselves, for me you are king with all the qualites ,
so even if people laugh at your selfless approach and poverty , for me you are a true king, and from now on, i want you to be remembered as VIKRAM -THE ULTIMATE KING.
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So Here I wish you all the good wishes for the Christmas , may everyone finds the right vibe and energy to enhance the presence of their respected choices and life.
Also I would like to put forward that I do expect a Christmas gift from everyone around as it has been days , months and years of me getting any gifts, from anyone. So do share your pictures of Christmas celebrations with your loved ones In the form of photos so that I could see how you people have celebrated.
With this if you could post a note for the people around you would be really good and beautiful to read and know the insight of it.
And yes like they say first things is first, do follow covid norms and standards for celebrations, make sure you don’t need to feel bad for the things you can’t actually fix back
Dream with my open eyes, With many more layers of love, Love, for the one to whom I never met, And never saw, She was Artistically beautiful, As I don’t think , could ever see a lady of such grace. With Her Beautiful Eyes , More like the Moon after eclipse. With a Little Sharp nose, May have customized before her birth, Lips , like Little Roses layered with Dew Drops, Soft , Smooth and colorful. She looked like a Beauty with a Mysterious smile, But before I could solve it, She Disappeared.
You know what, one day when you will sit and recall about it , you will be unhappy with your self, as you will see yourself as coward, as you never tried it for yourself and for the sake of your love. You always waited for some miracle to occur,which is not at all acceptable,
you can’t have such attitude, you will feel that you should have took some important measures to prove your love to her, at least a confident confession would have been easy to breathe situation you would feel.
I feel really bad for all such one sided lovers who never took an initiative, they have issues of becoming looser if she / he rejects, they become image conscious, they think they are not financially equal, they think they are not that in good looks and all, but some where some how they manages to love and like, they confess it to the whole world but never to the one they love.
And in the end they see that they are in the loosing side. And the reason for that is their coward behavior.
I always feel that one should fight in the best way till the end ,irrespect of the result, you can’t leave the Warfield without fighting,
There is no point of feeling bad and regretting about it later.
Show some courage you may find the same sort of emotions from the other side as well, and if not just move on with it as at least you gave your best to make your love count,
You can sleep better and live better as you tried.
Don’t opt for an untitled love in your life.
Love with courage to confess it ,
***Loving without courage to express and loosing in the end , is a real shame to the love. Say it with confidence and accept the outcome with smile.
Yes this is what we see in today’s kind of love. People just wait and wait for others to come first and approach for their love.
Even though they know what and where they are wrong but they feel going first and speaking would diminish their so called self-respect.
Look , I strongly feel that one should know the exact difference between self respect and ego.
There is a very fine line in between the both, so normally people think they are holding there self respect but they are actually doing wrong they are living with ego and make it grow more and more. And in the end they ruin their life .
They should not do that , what I strongly feel, as the trees which have the tendency to bend a bit end up living long, as long straight unbendable trees usually chopped and used for other purpose (Bamboo).
So, One should look beyond all these in life, egoism is not healthy for anyone especially in love it is very dangerous, people should preserve their love and nurture it better rather than spoiling it with their childish egoistic approach,
Going first and solving differences does not make you a small person, it makes you brave and bigger than your partner.
yes make sure that you don’t do anything beyond that margin of self-respect.
Dignified measures are good to sort it out ,
Make sure that you show them mirror if they are wrong and accept your mistakes as well , have proper communication and give them time to grow as an individual.
Hope you all are doing good in your life , as i really want you all to be in the best of your health and mental state.
Guys today i have been thinking about the stature and the credible status of Bollywood , and i really feel sad for the circumstances it has been , the recent suicides of some of the most adorable and talented actors and the drama around their demise has been very strange and shameful, which is very sluggish with the best of my knowledge.
but when i see the last one and half years of entertainment world , i only feel cheated and betrayed by the so called actors and their closed ones, we have seen the involvement of Mr. Raj Kundra in the pornography case and also in the IPL Betting case.
And then the never ending list of involvement of bollywood actors in drug peddling and consumption , we have seen the actors like Deepika Padukone , Sara Ali khan , Shraddha kappoor, Rakul Preet singh, Rhea chakraborthy along with her brother and yes Aryan Khan the son of famous bollywood actor shah Rukh Khan. Of course few of them have been are behind the bars but most of them are still in the process of investigation or may be the investigation agency could not have found any evidences or they were not enough to prove them guilty,
we also heard the noise of involvement form the televison industry with some big names from the business like Bharti singh and her husband. with due respect we have also some references of the south Indian film industry but they were are not as it has been form the bollywood,
although with Aid of some of the most reputed lawyers they are safe and they are still working in the same field but as an audience we have to think do we still trust them ?
do we really feel them are someone who have been asked for investigation without a purpose.
do we really think that they have been targeted by some of the people for their political or ideological benefits ? which we usually get to listen who are supporting these actors or who defend the bollywood,
we do have our own brain we can sense that everything is not for an political agenda as some forces are there to destroy the youth of our country and by availing drugs in the streets by small kids or by some unconventional means they are trying to make our country weak and addictive to the drugs which could hamper us like never before,
it is sad that few still there political interests in the entire investigation and raids.
but i feel that the term called bollywood has lost its charm and attraction, people have slowly developed hatred which we usually hear in the general discussions in our local gardens, this hatred is also very reasonable not at all objectionable as they are the so called reel heroes they have extra responsibility for being what they are there many followers to them who follow them blindly, they are worshiped in some places, but if this is what the truth is then i think it is the common people who have been cheated the most for believing everything what there favorite stars said,
but the broader picture is that there are many families who are completely dependent on the film industry for their survival if this how we all are going to create a kind of rejection and question for all the valid reasons where and what they will do to survive. i can only feel bad for everyone who followed them and who is associated from the industry and have to face some hatred for things they have done wrong somewhere .
The same thing is different when you start feeling it..
The same world is different when you start exploring it..
The same life is different when you start living it…
The same people are different when you start accepting them..
The same problems are different when you start solving them..
The same joke is different when you start enjoying it…
Reload the life by adding a new flair to it .
Everything is possible when you are willing to make it possible. It is very important to bring that adaptivity to withstand and conquer every single hurdle of life. Just Bring back Life to Liveliness. Thank you
Moon Sun Stars And You, Should shine Forever, Because This is What Suits You.
Shine Forever like the Diamonds, Even More than The Diamonds, Yes More And More, Because This is What suits You…. This is what defines you.
You are The One who should never be Dim and Dark. The Charm Of Your Face should never get faded. The Aura of Your Persona should never get Diminish, The Beauty of your Eyes should never get Lesser, Should Never get lesser at all, Because This is What suits You….
Darling, Nothing Can Break You, Nothing can ever overshadow You, Nothing can ever Bother you my love, Just Smile and shine Always,
jennifer winget
Because This is What suits you, This is What Suits You The Most …..
I am staying at some distance without my honest will,
But this is quite cautionary,
I am hiding my emotions and the reactive notions.
I am hiding the cute little love.
I want loneliness not love,
May be I am avoiding it with the restricted barriers.
I don’t think I should love,
or i need a love story now,
I am good with the tears,
don’t want someone to wipe out,
I am loving this love but I think I can’t love,
I should not love.
I hope my emotions are not evident to the world,
I hope I can hide it well.
Yes I would prefer to hide my Happiness,
My Feelings,
My Emotions,
And
My love.
*Don’t Hide your Emotions . Love , Hate , Anger, or Happiness just show it , feel it . it is good to speak and sort it out, no restricted barriers should come in between of your feelings and confrontations.
Most of the time she looked at him, without even murmuring a single word,
He was talking a lot, being unaware of being noticed, he explained everything what was needed regarding it.
She was looking at him like a poser poses ,with a smile and still eyes with some glittering effect in eyes.
Like a serious listener
And he was just speaking with all the professionalism without any hesitation or confusion,
as he was a sincere and dedicated sales officer came to demonstrate about the product for which he was assigned.
She liked his speaking skills more than anyone as she was not listening him, and she never cared that he speaks fast and non stop.
For her it was more like seeing someone very pure at eyes and innocent with looks.
it was like something special in front of her which she really liked and loved looking at.
And for him, talking to her was just making sure that he could convince her for the purchase of the product.
He explained everything, and asked whether she is impressed with product or not ? She has any doubts or what? She would purchase it or not?
She replied I am very happy with the product but would like to understand about it more deeply, so she asked him to explain the entire product again,(purposely she said)
He explained her for three times, (without any anger)
And finally she bought it with a smile and took the word to help her if needed regarding the usage, by the visit or via phone.
He smiled and said sure Mam.
And then they never had any doubts and explanations between them,
as the usage of phone was quite more better than explanations and doubts of the products.
I am Adding more colors to your painting, as I added more flairs to my personality,
yes I like smiling now as you do, not much like you but yes I can smile my love.
Somehow I managed to look good by wearing the best clothes from my wardrobe as you have the tendency of making every presence picture perfect.
Yes I started using the same shade of lipstick which you said you like at the movie theatre last week.
Also i added a habit of you , looking more towards the camera and posing ,
I think I am looking you in me.
I am not the same individual who sits alone in the dark room with specs on my eyes and searching something exciting on my laptop.
I find my life happening with you and it is exciting as well I don’t need any other entertainment to pursue.
I love to look good now,
I want to be like you,
Always smiling always charming like a happy child.
***when we are in love we just love to do everything like our partner not to impress but actually to feel good about it, which makes love more beautiful.
*** Love can change your tastes, outlooks and choices.
Me , Love And Problems, we three have been always with each other, love always came to me with many more problems, I accepted love with both the hands and problems with some tears, it’s more like a triangular love story of Bollywood , we three always fall for each one of us.
I still remember that I have chosen the path of love almost like riding the bike against the flow of wind, always risky and challenging.
But somehow I liked the drama around love with little bit of sweetness sometimes ,but most of the time it was bitterness which I tasted more. But still preferred to choose love and the problem later.
Love has been my actual girl friend and with whom I wanted to spend my life time, but problem has been the one whose secret crush has been me, with whom I never actually moved apart though always tried. As she has been a strong follower of mine.
I have been given option, to stay away from love to stay away from problem but i opted for love and so then problem persisted ,which in turn it has ruined my life,
my life completely demolished for the sake of love. It has broken my heart into pieces of chicken, which the problem enjoyed with some roasting,
so how I say I am like the roasted chicken, which you like the most with salt and pepper.
It is very painful to be the one with such reality where you find yourself alone and alone, every next time.
Deep down I feel , I shouldn’t have fallen for love it took everything from me, but I actually fall for it again and again, I am always someone who believes in doing the same mistake again and again irrespective of the outcome.
Yes maybe I am kid at heart, or fool in other words.
So, In return I end up being a showpiece to the world, they feel for me, the learn from my mistake ,they talk about me and some even likes to offer charity and some just do the gossips,
Even after all this if someone ask me would you prefer love to have with you ,but you have to accept problem as well,
I will say yes I want to have love regardless of problem and consequences.
You can’t love anyone without problem and in other way if you see you always need love to tackle with pains & problems.
You may loose sometime and sometime you may win, but it has to be the love for which you live regardless of it complementary gifts.
Love always !
Don’t worry about problems or it’s side effects.
Just try to have love in your side more and more with a smile and shine.
We all can say this after sometime of our love failure without any hesitation,
but do we ever think about it when we actually in love with that individual,
I think we don’t and we can’t actually,
so how and why we say it after the things has gone other way?
Hypocrisy it is..
Instead of saying that we should try to be honest and accept that we were not good enough to stand by our love for which we are responsible, not the compatibility!
One day you will sit and remember that you actually liked the moments you lived with your first love, whether we loved or argue there is something cute within it, which is inevitable.
you may find more love and more happiness in life but you will remember the one always as you shared the most purest form of love with him/her
yes they say it right first love is always the love which stays in our heart even at the ages of deaths,
First love remains there in your heart no matter how much you try to eradicate it from your heart, you can’t do it, you may find the valid reasons, but emotions don’t understand any such reason,
First love is an illusion,
you smile by the anger of your partner, and you get angry on the most silly things,
The more deep you love the more you live with the innocence of first love…
first love is the best love, it is something which makes you grow more as person sometimes and sometimes it makes you a stubborn and even a kid.
But trust me the most beautiful emotion is love, and when it comes to first love I think the beauty of love is enhanced more and more.
Those eye contacts, the hints, the little cuddles, makes it even more beautiful,
Confusions, jealousness, doubts and possessiveness makes it even more exciting,
And the impatience adds the exact salt to the taste,
The first love is the beautiful garden with all the colors of flowers, which stays in the heart even after years and years.
Just a thought of looking back came in my mind , but it is good to move forward.. I realized then.
Though the life is very empty and I am very much alone.
Yes I don’t smile as i used to do. Yes I don’t live the life as I have been.
Yes I put my head down when I have been asked to answer as I don’t want any confrontations as it illogical now.
Yes I think daily about how it happened? And why to me? I could have done better or what?
But yes it feels good to know that I am not with those fake people , I am not around with the so called well wishers of mine.
As even I came to know that it’s good to be alone rather than the fake people.
So I don’t need to look back as it only gives me pain for being so idiot and blind in love. How I could be so fool? How they could be so cruel and selfish? Why I believed them in that way?
Many questions within me comes and make feel bad about it as I can’t get the answers. As they are unavailable to me in fact don’t exist for me anymore either.
So this life has taught me that yes it is very painful to deal with your emotional setbacks , as it may drag you again and again to the life where you have been but one should never look back . we should smile and move forward in life.
Don’t Look Back to the People and to the history which Hurts you even more than the pain your dealing in the present.
Just Don’t Look Back and Move forward.
As it will give you sadness only.
Life is cycle of happiness and sadness wait for the other side and live your life with a smiLe.
Hell is the better to place to live the rest of my life,
As it won’t give me these breathe taking pains on instalment basis,
As it won’t give me the sadness of being cheated again and again, As it won’t insult me for loving you blindly every now and then, Yes Hell is the better to live my life.
You are the reason for all these conversations,
You are the reason for all the instigations,
You are the reason for my helplessness,
You are the reason for every time i cry, You made my life irresistible, Hell is better place to live,
I can’t live with this shame,
I can’t live with this humiliation,
I do have words, I don’t want to stay with it, Yes I am frustrated,
As Hell is the better to place to LIVE.
Hell is the better to place to live the rest of my life,
As it won’t give me these breathe taking pains on instalment basis,
As it won’t give me the sadness of being cheated again and again, As it won’t insult me for loving you blindly every now and then, Yes Hell is the better to live my life.
You are the reason for all these conversations,
You are the reason for all the instigations,
You are the reason for my helplessness,
You are the reason for every time i cry, You made my life irresistible, Hell is better place to live,
I can’t live with this shame,
I can’t live with this humiliation,
I do have words, I don’t want to stay with it, Yes I am frustrated,
Yes I have to say that I love you and hate you, yes it is very tough to do both at the same time but yes I have been doing it daily from few years, I don’t know how but I hate you like hell and yes I still love you dear somewhere …I don’t know why.! You have been a puzzle you are still the same.
It is hard to have the love and hate relationship with the same individual but yes I have something like that and I am enjoying it. Yes I never wanted to hate you but your deeds are very bad, I know it is unbelievable but yes I do love and hate to you a lot.
I hope someday I can come to a conclusion of loving you or hating you only, rather than having both emotions on you. Don’t ask me which is more.
How many of you agree to the fact that sometimes advising someone could become your mistake…
You may be doing something for the betterment of the individual by taking some unauthorized ownership which may hurt them if you have been enforcing your views on them. They may feel that you are taking their liberty from them to do things as per them…
And you being unaware of the thinking would give more suggestions which may be good enough but due to the fact that you are hurting their ego. They may ask you who the hell are you to give such suggestions..?
In fact I agree and understand their perception also. as no one want to feel lesser and its hard to see that people take opinions and views sportively…
Nevertheless its good to have a barrier of No I don’t need to do this…Rather then feeling bad of witnessing harshness…
But if you are advising then you will think that the person will praise you or will acknowledge you some Or the other way..
The minimum maturity level and ethics is not there…. Which we normally expect from the people to whom we normally like and admire…but if they led you down then you will feel that the expectation was mistake….
If anyone is advising you something then then you should be able enough to take it positively as no one has a free time in this busy world to advice you. Its purely selflessness .
he/she is advising you because they are your well wishers. You are not paying them to do so.
Is it mandatory that one should always say the good things and put the scope of improvement under the carpet…!
I look my mirror for enhancing my looks.it may show me some dark circles but it does not mean that I will break that mirror…!
The way things are going now a days it could become even more worse for the people…
just for the power game our so called mature experienced and bold politicians are crossing their limits … Are they not playing with the emotions of their countrymen …it’s highly idiotic to see them in this manner ….
ohh fully selfishness beyond expectations…
Why and how they do this ?
Becoming communal or stating something which could hurt someone’s emotion is should be strictly considered as crime for any single individual whether he is king or slave…
as it could be the spark which can burn the entire house…..
We don’t want any more fights or rights we have more issues to get sorted, and focus should be on the basics like unemployment, girl‘s safety, modernization, poverty, crimerate, industrialstabilization, inflation education and empowerment etc….
how this community war Came in between these….grow up @our politicians #UPELECTIONs…
Its our India and we can make things happen please know the value of a single vote …..
Oh, this life is very dramatic it makes us feel annoying at times… A man who has seen a life of a king and ruled people at His will like puppets …without any mercy and relaxation has now going to face all sorts of trouble in his life like poor common man…
whether he likes it or not .
and this time he is going to face all kinds of torture from the contradictors….
it is simply harsh to the stature of a king to live this kind of pity life but its just his fate and he cannot make any choice ..I feel really bad for him he has seen glory now he has to see the garbage for survival…..
O God you are very harsh sometimes….
but its OK if you feel its just the proper judgment..
This life is quite a brain drainer sometimes. As it becomes tough to figure out the right one out of the numerous odd ways and in this process we could either become hero or zero .
ohh…
Its just that we are about to do something in which we are bound to select the thing whether we are not sure about its output, it could be both ways but we have to do irrespective to our will…if it gives a better result we take credit by that if not then we have to pay the damn price and it hurts more because its just not mistake it’s a forced mistake…
situations and circumstances I hate this two words as they don’t favor me at all. I have to do all which I don’t want to do but time speaks louder then your will…I hate loudness though,
And our mind is just doing nothing because we are thinking with all parameters of happenings…
Well its obvious to grow and learn in life but as we get imbibed in certain duties in our daily life it becomes tough to aid every next thing in notice..
As we find it boring in doing the same sort of things on daily basis and in return we start diminishing our creativeness in life…
we want shortcuts for our life we want quick fixes…
we do not need any experimentation or exploration ….thus it becomes necessary for us to proceed in the same way…. but this in conclusion states that we are not lesser then the software based robots who starts and completes the works on the same induced programming…they need charge to sustain or prolong their working ability and we need food…
we need to have some creativeness in our life
something more to learn..
something more to grow..
something more to express..
something more to explore…
and of course something more to deliver as a human being… how we can do this ?or do we want to do this ? is the biggest question above all….. the transformation of ourselves back to humans from robots is quite a lethargic process but this is the most needy thing which i find in our life….lets take the initiative to put the things in the most original way rather than the program based life….
Things are shaping slowly, like we see the clouds before the good needed rain, after a long never ending summer,
people are back to move on the roads, some with the need and some with sense of relaxation,
kids have started playing cricket again in the streets with masks while batting but with the common bat :p
women are happy to see people walking, some in the evening and some in the morning.
It is good to se everyone standing again with the same effort against the wicked virus, like they did last year,
they all have realized it is not going to end this or that year, it will end when we all have our vaccinations, when we are not going to repeat the same mistakes again,
we with the combined effort can make it possible, we will never have this shackled life if we abide and obey the modern rules of life.
In response to this strain and that strain we all have to stand and prove again that this life which is gifted to us by god is very precious to us.
And we are not going to make it waste by any such man made virus.
Kiss , What is it ? Why We Do it? When it started? How It Started? What Are The Types? Etcetera Etcetera. So Guys Let’s Find The Answers On This Kissing Day… ( A Very Happy Valentine’s Day 🙂 ).
Kiss is An Expression Of showing your love To Your partner, Friends, Parents, kids etc., it could be for welcoming, Greeting, Congratulating, Love making, consoling, fare welling, etc.
It is scientifically stated that kissing is good for human beings, as a hormone called oxytocin is released which is also the main reason for having a kiss.
It causes a chemical reaction on your brain, It is considered as a happy hormone.
It has been observed that people kiss by learning it from another, And adapt it to their best , kissing on your partners cheeks, forehead, lips, Nose Neck, Palms, Shoulders , feet,etc are the ones which could be considered as an intimacy for love and love making,
Kissing could be a bad experience if you or your partner is having a bad breathe and body odor . so make sure you smell good.
It started 3500 years ago, as per Hindu Vedic Sanskrit texts, where kissing is termed as an inhaling of souls.
The sculptures are somewhat the observation of the same. There are other terms which are debatable .
There are many types of kissing so let’s not get in details of all, but yes The most common types are Lips Kiss, French Kiss, Neck kiss, Forehead kiss, palm kiss, Lizard kiss, Peck Kiss, Earlobe Kiss, Bite Kiss etc.
you may Google All for knowing the details And The Steps involved in performing it. Don’t Feel shy to perform with Your loved ones 🙂
So Kissing is a beautiful feeling and considered as good for humans as per various reports of physiologists , Kissing is not bounded as per the place and time, People have it by their choice in the brightest if sunshine to the darkness of night, at the corners of road also at the coffee table ,and bedrooms.
Hope You People like it. And share your thoughts on the post.
they Find love to Just express in any and every form , they find your dirty clothes clean enough to touch and then wash with their own hands,
just their around the messy collar of shirt while applying a soap/Detergent they have a smile for which they don’t have a limit, and yes a lot of satisfaction,
They wake up Early in the morning and hit the kitchen arranges everything with cooking your favourite dish with some secret smile and makes you eat with a complete satisfaction, it gives the individual some good feeling which is pure love,
They even love to iron your clothes with a proper combination of clothes, They don’t do to express or show you their care ,they find it as a mark of love, they just want to be with you and your things and yes involve in everything which is associated with you,
they want you to help professionally, emotionally, mentally and also personally,
Sometimes it may sound like a that they should not be doing all that which a servant or we could do our own, but who can explain the one who is madly in love,
They find it exciting, enchanting and encouraging everything small and big thing what they do for us.. Is just the pure form of love in which they live, and for which should be so Thankful to them,
As love is more when you have your ways of expressing it, just not at your bed, not even by the gifts you share on birthdays, it should be there in everything what you do..
Yes Just to get a complement they by being not so good at their health try their best to dress up well with all sorts of efforts to look good and make you feel good, please don’t ignore them after such efforts.
Feel Your love For Your Partner in everything you do in life, But yes Do have an idea about the choices so that one should not feel like discomfort.
A Daughter Who really Earned Respect for being So Loving And Reliable to Her Parents ,
she could be in the 40s who lives along with her parents , she earns for the livelihood , as there is no other source of income , she could be working from last 16years , just never felt the need of a partner for herself as her priority has been always her parents.
She is someone who merely talks with anyone in her locality, as she is a working women with just a day off in a week, also she finds her self different in the area as most of them are conservative.
Few considers her as an egoistic, few find her modern girl as they prefer to stay at home.
But At the age of 39 she gets married to a guy after few years of dating who basically works at the same place of work,
He could be a bit younger to her as per the appearance but the most interesting thing is that Even though she got married to him, she has convinced him and her in-laws to stay at her own home with her parents as she can’t leave them at this old age alone, as she can’t walk away from her responsibilities which has been doing over the years both her parents have some disease.
And they do need regular diagnosis and timely medication.
Also they need someone for all the basic requirements and daily needs which she evenly realizes so she has put forward everything in front of her beloved husband and in laws which they without a second opinion agreed and the guy also took the appropriate stand to stay with his parents likewise.
They do come and go on weekly basis at each other’s residences. I think they both are very good in their understanding each other.
So every time I stand at my balcony I see a 40year old daughter go to her office and her 68years old mother and 72years old father comes and share their escorts by a bye or see you evening and also with a Ta Ta is so overwhelming.
And the daughter replies the Ta Ta with do take medicines in time is absolutely cute.
The parents stares the daughter Till she takes the last turn of the road which is so pleasing to my eyes.
I feel she is an inspiration to every guy who at leaves his very own parents to the old age homes, or even makes their life miserable by treating them with taunts for every is single need of them.
I have been watching this lovely visual of daughter and her parents. From quite a few days and she makes me feel good about life every time I see her .
she is a tight slap on the faces of people who used to prefer boys over girls , or even have a negative mindset for girls.
Her Flair .. with some kind of magic evolved and leaving a bit of sparkle everywhere she looks, With a little bit of smile on her face filled with positivity , purity and warmness.. Her pinkish lips with the glossy eyeshades,with her blonde hair is a real treat to gaze her more and even more. […]
One Day Everyone of Us will reach to certain Ages where we have to consider ourselves retired at least by the physical contributions, society standards, and also as per the demands of family,
Everyone is very highly inclined at the working ages where one have command on the every parameters of life be it is a financial thing or a Any other responsibility ,
but when we reach to the stage where we have been considered as retired by social standards, we have to get dependent on every single thing on our kids , be it is a financial need or any other requirements ,
sometimes kids have this realization that from this month my father/mother doesn’t have the same job so I have to be their for fulfilling all the needs but sometimes we do forget this just by a fault or even by lapse or unavoidable conditions,
at that stage we do observe how after all those days of work and having money all around life changes,
but we just forget that we can’t afford everything what we feel to have , it is quite scratchy to ask sometimes as ego does comes,
sometimes people over think and consider themselves as worthless ,
we do see that same person who merely went to buy a packet of candles has started purchasing the households and grocery, shall we say time teaches..
Or we can say they do want to contribute in the way they could. It is painful to observe it .
But yes it is a learning thing even at such days because the more you are creating barrier,
you find your self in a very doubtful situation it is also a thing to understand that one should never get too dependent on anyone at least to cope up with his own self respect.
And yes the one who has responsibility of individuals of certain old age people and our parents should always prioritize their needs on fore front.
Life is smooth and Fine when we don’t have any curtains in between, As We do find self created barriers which is sometimes so strong that it becomes Unbreakable.
Planning Life is Not Always Possible, But Prioritizing Life is Always Possible.
Let’s Experience and Celebrate MAN Ki BAAT, ( Men’s Talk).
Happy Men’s Day to Everyone Around, I know it sounds weird and formal as we are not aware of such days, Neither we feel Anything special about it.
Because we do not have any Social Media Propaganda for it, Not Even A Page , Video compilations or Even a text on our private Contact No.s , Neither we got educated/Informed about it in schools, Never Even saw anything in reference to it on television or even a hoarding about it 😀
Yes We do find it Awkward to think special because we live in this society were we are questioned, judged and validated by the society itself, we are considered in some group of culprits, without any consent.
We don’t Have an identity card to prove our self, We are going to face the same situation some day or the other, because society feels all are same,
We are Strong, Weak, Equal, selfish, Partial, Superior, Incompetent and what not as per the demand and the needs of society and above all as per the manipulation of so called modern day social reformers,
They are Right because they can’t be wrong , and we have to sit and listen whatever they feel , think and decide.
Anyways let’s celebrate this day with a big heart because Mr. Bachhan said , “MARD ko Dard Nahi Hota”.
Please Read , Like And Share Your Thoughts Even If you have a women card in your pocket because this is not against any gender at least not against women.
As We All Know , Yesterday On 5th August 2020, Our Honourable Prime Minister has Initiated the construction of Shri Ram Mandir (Temple) at Ayodhya in the state of Uttar Pradesh.
Ayodhya Itself is a place of birth of Lord Shri Rama.
All Traditional Values have been Properly addressed along with The Prayers and laying of foundation stone ( Bhumi Poojan).
All sorts of actions have been addressed for the People to stand and sit in context to the global pandemic Corona . Though It has been stated that very limited Audience were there due to the same.
It has been stated that it would take Around 3years For the completion of Construction of temple.
It has been a long fight for everyone who believes in Hinduism, and worships Shri Rama.
It has been a different kind of ambience altogether. Similar to what we have in festivals Diwali And Dussera.
People of different ages and of different locations were united for the temple , and it is evident that everyone is happy with the construction of temple, But this is not just about constructing another Temple, it is about sentiments and Emotions, it is like Providing hone in the form of temple to Lord Shri Rama on his own birthplace.
But I Would like to share that even I have been one of those who felt that we could have this later , when corona’s impact is negligible, as it could have a high amount of risk but yes on 5th August from the morning I have observed something in me and this is different from the normal , Ambience , Aura , And Connectivity with God was at something else .
I did some exercise to find and know few more facts about Lord Shri Rama, And I came to know few really Inspiring Facts, stories, and observations.
Yes I have even read about the hardships of the individuals in the making of Shri Rama Temple along with the dispute and wait of 500years .
I have To admit this, that what we know is very little About The God ,
I recommend everyone to have a look at Shri Ram’s Life and the every facts involved about the lord, be it is about chanting of the Tarak Mantra, Or About the Principles of Shri Rama.
“Shri Ram Jai Ram Jai Jai Ram”
“Shri Rama Rama Rameti , Rame Rame Manorame , Shahastra Nama Tattulyam Rama Nama Varanane ..”
These Mantras above have been Used by my father and we all at home from our childhood have been chanting without knowing the meaning not even trying to know what it impact has, yes we knew it is there for the God,
but yesterday I came to know that the mantras are very popular and it is equal to the read of Entire ‘Vishnu shashtranama’ .
Writing Shri Rama on a blank piece of paper for around 108times has a lot of good things involved which could be unfolded by doing the simple practice, I did but yes I wrote without a count and completed the entire 3 sheets . it felt good after I saw on paper,
I am not forcing anyone for any belief I am just sharing my thoughts and observations, I Request everyone just to get involved in the Stories related to Shri Rama, Shri Krishna in this free time.
I am not promoting Hinduism here but yes I am sharing the observed facts beliefs and Stories .
Just use your time to find and know the existence , individuality, thoughts and principle’s of Our Almighty.
Hope You all are Healthy and Strong at your Respective spaces.
So Firstly tell me Guys How About You Being Watched , Observed, Discussed, Objected, And Manipulated Every Day for Everything You do and don’t, By None Other Than Your very neighbors , and The People Around You?
I Don’t Know about you but I find it absolutely annoying. I feel like I am under a camera with every single act of mine been watched ,observed and Discussed without my choice.
Let’s Discuss about the group of people who are nothing to you and you are nothing to them but they always have the tendency to know you & your personal life.
They start their day with an eye at your house,
they have every idea about your entry and exit timings,
They could act like doing something by standing near their balconies, it could be liking watering their home garden, drying their clothes, walking for health or even sipping their morning and evening tea,
What you do and don’t they have an appropriate list,
They have their Binoculars on you but Without any real binoculars,
their eyes are enough with which they can zoom in every time a new guest/friend arrives at your home,
Even if You have Received any bill for the service you used, they stand and see what’s the amount you are paying or if requesting for a part payment.
They have same sort of people in their gang, With which they usually sit and discuss about every other individual they are spying / looking at, with some rounds of tea they enjoy someone’s personal Life.
They are so sharp that even they could tell you that who is having an affair with someone, even before their parents,
they also have some specialists who could tell you who are planning to get married without any information to their parents,
Also A Gang is their who is special for knowing the professional information, it could be someone’s promotion details, or a salary and even about the Fake Job Appointment .
Some are good in knowing about the habits of individuals they can tell with utmost confidence that who started drinking liquors and who has been smoking without anyone’s knowledge.
Some even work like traffic inspectors, yes I am saying truth.
they don’t show signals of Stop and Go in Red and Green,
they don’t even inspect your vehicles and Driving licenses but yes they would stand near their gate or around some near by shops for the good long hours and watch everyone going and coming like the traffic inspectors.
Yes all these people are around you and me,
they just look at you with your notice and also without your notice, sometimes we can sense when they come and discuss about someone’s personal life and do everything with their life which they should not,
Without the knowledge the individual is in news of the area, everyone is talking because they make it viral without any social site and internet but yes with talking about it to everyone they meet.
It is mostly seen in ladies :p , they sit and discuss about someone who don’t even know that how is life has became a Road side topic of discussion.
Yes I do feel that few Men are also of such kind who would stand behind his curtain and see how you are parking your bike and on which day your petrol tank is empty and you are dragging it to the nearest petrol bunk.
They would see how you look your colony’s Most Beautiful Girl, Whether You both have an eye contact or not, they have an eye on you.
They observe How long you can talk with your phone. And what time you are coming back to home from any party.
Anyways, I Don’t like it at all and I don’t even know what they get out of it, is it for fun or they find it entertaining , or its just their trait, but seriously this is not good.
you may have such interest to know what’s going in your neighbor’s house but this curiosity should not make anyone feel irritated with you, it should not make anyone’s life a topic of discussion from his house to the market.
After all Everyone wants a personal space in life , we all have a choice of letting it know to everyone and also not to anyone and it should be left to the individual .
No one should make someone’s life a Film or Drama.
And I feel People who are audience of it are equally responsible as this practice should not be appreciated and encouraged, We should refuse to listen such Orchestra.
Hoping That You all are smiling with The best of health and calmness in your life. 🙂
Dear Friends,
We All have heard And Even stated about this Term called “Good Boy” , Let’s Discuss About The Concept Of Good Boy,
Before even starting about this mega torture(at least to me) let me know who have had luck of seeing him, or even listening about the person,
How He/They look?
They are like you and me with Two hands, Two legs, Two Eyes,Ears with one nose and neck or they look different in appearances. :p
Coming Back To The Point ,
Good Boy is a society Given Title to the persons who are good With them and to their Books,
They must be obedient enough with a never ending smile always,
Also should be with lesser hair and complemented with some Classy Clothes, Polished shoes.
Clean Shaven with a good listening skills.
they may even have the knack of doing things before asking , before even the actual need.
They have to be very Attentive, Adaptive, Available , Apologetic and Assuring.
Even in the childhood days it has been stated that the boys with spectacles and combed hair are good in contrary to those who have had the rough uncombed hair , and if someone is with pierced ear he has been awarded with a certification of Criminal.
The Boys Who Sit in the first Three Benches are always considered as the Good boys whereas the last benchers are the most hated boys of the class, They are unofficially Culprits of everything bad happening to anyone and everyone.
And In the Jobs, Everyone is in a hunt to prove himself the good boy and this is seriously going with full fledged manner, Even then no one could be ever unanimously considered as Good Boy , because everyone have their choice and you will fail to their demands someday or the other.
One should be religious, Really needs to visit Temples on daily basis, should never roam unnecessarily,. Etcetera
So , After All this observation I think we could sense what the actual definition of Good Boy,
one whose parents feel proud about to discuss ,
one who is good as son , brother,friend,husband and father,
one who is concerned about the family and everyone around without any wrong intention
One Who is sincere in his work with all his dedication
One who is not at all harmful to anyone regardless of the sitting arrangement
Yes there is no specific Representation of Looks,Expression, Behavior, sitting arrangement.
One could live as he wants to be with his comfort,and utmost dedication , it really don’t need any buttering to have a validations.
Just be honest.
Just Be Responsible enough to accept your mistakes and stay Affectionate to the people you love a lot .
Every Boy is a Good Boy if they know The Real Difference between Good And Bad.
Today I thought Just to Put a glare on the Various Systems ( Functionings), With which we usually deal in our daily life, with And without our choice,
Guys , we often see People complaining about the things with which they felt Discarded ,Also toxic and end up Leaving it for their own good, as It becomes suffocating to withstand with something which is not Productive and also Unworthy,
And If You find it decent than the people who are running it make it terrible, Like I Work in Private Sector and it has been said that everything what we have in the private sector is Very Professional and You may get paid as per your output,
it was also stated that the People are being associated with multiple Job responsibilities , so that one could learn more than One thing if he is actually happy in learning,
And yes we all have been said that Growth of An Individual is Very Good, With Job satisfaction and Productive Involvement.
But later I Have Observed, that People are having negative mindsets, they feel that “even if we put our Life for the respective organization we are not going get to recognized,”
“we will never get any monetary gains,”
“we will never ever get appreciated,”
they are just scared to do new things,
they just don’t want to learn and grow,
even of they know it,they would say
we don’t know,
we can’t do,
this is not our cup of tea etc.
They Even divert the job responsibility,
They are so Negative in thoughts that , they don’t Even ready to share the knowledge or even help their juniors if they seek help from them,
it is so disturbing to me, even the Paper works are very slow and cumbersome,
In fact I gave an interview Recently and in which I cleared the technical interview and it was the salary part which was about to be discussed, I gave my expected salary to the HR department and then they haven’t called me for 10 days and I have to call them for the same, then they said we can’t pay lesser than the half of what you have mentioned as your expected salary,
I was not happy with the Fish Market Bargaining,
As I was Very Much in the market Rate. I said It is not about what you can pay and what not, but what it took to make a call on the very next day or a day after or even 3/4 days post interview.
as I was happy about my interview and the feedback, and was serious about your Organization, They Said We Thought You will Understand it yourself, that we can’t pay. I replied your organization is one of the reputed ones and I never thought you people can’t pay the nominal market salary , and above it this approach is something which I never expected from your end. Even if I have asked more than what you kept as salary for the job, you people have conveyed me the same, and at least informed me about it, there is always a scope of negotiations, but I think Your company can’t even afford a phone call, I replied and disconnected the call.
Even many of my friends have also mentioned the same that some of the Interviewers are not at all Sensitive, they neither inform about your selection not even about your rejection, they just call and take the interview and Collect the database,
I have observed that people usually leave their job after 1 or 2 years,
I felt that may be the individuals are not mentally stable, or even got better package, I later came to know the reason of it, that The people who have performed well, did the extreme hard work and expected an appraisal , increment,and even promotion has never got it, instead had been asked to do Overtimes without any pay for a constant time, and they left the job once they find a better one,
I feel that The people who are recruiting individuals have the responsibility of Finding Performing individuals and preserve them for a long time, as they have to be given respect for bringing the best from the rest,
Recruiting individuals is not the only modern day thing of HR Department, it is about Finding the best team and making them stay with you to have the best output . Just for A little lesser Amount Organizations compromises with their proven Individuals and find someone new as we have pool of Unemployed People and that individual takes time to understand things,and even they may not fit in the same place, then they face severe Loss of output, Quality of work and a team of Performers,
There should be a Policy to Find, Nurture and Sustain with the individuals.
“Just be Vocal About the Local so that it could become Global..” Actually a nice thought, I am completely standing with PM Modi on it,
But Just by canvassing about the products , That this is good , this is good , this is good , take it.
Sorry it can’t make people to put their money on it,
As no one actually puts a penny on anything just by listening to someone, so It would be a bigger challenge to make our local products bigger than the brands we have,
We have to give The best quality, continued upgradings, affordability, Supply and Availability to match the demands of consumer regularly.
And Globalization is even more tough, as it needs Branding,Promoting, Marketing, Market Reach, services, Reliability, Customer satisfaction, Global Tie-Ups, Research, Demand Generation, Launch, Advertisements, supply & ease of availability, Etc etc.
then we could at least stand on global competition , and the survival depends upon the performances and feedbacks of the product.
So, it has a lot more than what we think, but yes it is the exact need of our country because we are relying too much on others and in return they are being benefitted.
let’s start from here, lets Use our Indian brands, see how it is and what else we could find to make it even better. We are having the best brains and Manpower and with proper support and outlook we could try and get what we are thinking about.
But At this point we have to stop using Foreign Brands. Can we all stop using foreign brands? We are creating huge revenues for them by using it.
We helped them to become Popular and improve more as a brand. Which actually helped them to become big bigger and even biggest.
Though I do believe that they are exciting and also worthy enough but we can give a chance to our Indian brands to Grow and explore more , as a Indian this is the minimum what we could do to put ourselves in a global space.
I Feel, That mostly People are Good but they have that unnecessary attitude , which makes them alone and avoidable.
They should Chop it to the end, to do more good things in their life, as it defines you more when you behave ,
The most successful people have been those whose attitude have been enigmatic by being humble,
the people who are more inclined towards ego, arrogance and of course proud ends up doing nothing though they’re potentially talented.
Sometimes it is your behavior which drags you down , and sometimes its the same which lifts you Up.
It is not new that the people with lesser talent have been preferred over someone with much more talent , just because of the arrogance, and attitude the talented individual has.
So, Your attitude actually defines you in life .
One can learn the things gradually but your etiquettes should be Perfect even if you are slow,
You can’t argue or misbehave with your teacher just because you have secured good marks in the previous class out of many students, you have to keep your feet grounded, and have humbleness to learn and gain more in life.
The Way these so called Kids are using their sick brains is not good at all, this is not acceptable, we are already going through a very tough time,
And something like this in between is even more painful and disturbing.
I don’t know which school they go, what they have been taught, what their parents are doing , where they stand in their life, what they feel about the whole incident, but this is seriously very cheap and disgraceful,why this happened , what are the psychological reasons involved in it we don’t know , but this is very shameful..
Yes I also feel that the social media platforms should have an eye on the things which are obligatory,
And should not allow individuals to post and share things which are offensive by any parameter of society.
Even if it is an abusive language, should be completely prohibited, As everyone holds responsibility to make a good society, so it starts with you , me and then with she and he. And so on. I do believe that we have the need of sex education in our syllabus, it is high time now, we can’t wait to things get better, we have to bring the results with our efforts. we have to curb the explicitness of public platform, even the advertisements are so pathetic nowadays, we can’t even sit at the same place with family at certain times. This is so disturbing.
The content has to be blamed along with the broadcasting authorities. And The way we are accustomed to social media, television, online studies, etc it is a very serious responsibility of the individuals who have the authority to actually check the content, language, advertisements, etc associated with it.
Moreover as a responsible citizen, one has to understand that every person should be treated with respect and dignity. You have no right to speak or write anything which is degrading and derogatory.
Abusing, Trolling, Defaming, Blackmailing, etc on public platforms should be strictly prohibited by the public platforms itself .
Criminal charges should be imposed on culprits regardless of their ages. And this should mentioned in the disclaimers to stop cyber crimes.
I wish and hope you all are safe and fine, Please take care of yourself and of everyone around you.
Okay, so I have been nominated by a good friend , and a very active blogger, Rachana Dhaka for “The Sunshine Blogger Award” , and I Am very thankful to her for the nomination,
she is very good at her work, though I am very late to write about it for which I feel bad, but writing through this Thanksgiving for award nomination.
And yes this is my second nomination for this award. So, Thank you again.
My Answers :-
1. If you could be any animal, what would you be and why? May be A Dog, as it is considered as the faithful one, but I won’t prefer to be a cat as I don’t like them.
2. What was the first ever creative effort that you remember really being proud of? I think the first time I gave speech in my school in front of many students, teachers at very young age (May be 10years), without any preparation has given me confidence, and later it became a habit and soon I have been approached for anchoring, debates at school, college,social events,etc and also coming here at WordPress makes me feel good if not proud about myself for the creativity involved in it to be here and appreciation I received in return.
3. If you could choose between true happiness, or a greater creative skills, what would you pick? I would be a fool to pick skills over happiness, I am always going to pick happiness even with least skills as end of the day you search satisfaction and that’s only available with happiness.
4. Does politics have a place in the arts? Yes it has, Though it is a need still to cultivate good politics not the bad one,
5. What gets you out of bed in the morning? a bad dream, a power cut,and of course responsibilities.
6. Where and how do you do most of your writing? Always at home, when I have some issues, topics, stories to tell and discuss.
7. What famous work do you wish you had created? Let’s not discuss it to make famous, let’s do it and make it famous.
8. Is there anyone in the world that you actually hate? We as human, have different emotions we have love for some and for some we have hatred, its a natural process unless you are a saint or kind of creature, which I am not yet. So yes I have hate for few and don’t feel bad about as they deserve my hatred, though I am not seeking anything bad for them but yes I don’t like them at this phase of my life not sure about future. And yes one more thing, I hate very few but there are many who hate me, but I don’t care 🙂 .
9. Where is the furthest you have been from home? I just love my home, but yes Delhi, Hyderabad .
10. Would you prefer to wake up early, or stay up late?
🙂 Unsure , As it depends Whether I have some work at night or in the morning. I can do both.
11. Who has been your greatest inspiration?
Anyone and Everyone who are good at what they do could inspire me,
12. If you could give a new writer who was setting up a blog one piece of advice, what would it be? Just express the instincts, It could be raw , different and unpleasant to some. But it would what you have in your mind, just try and write the original thoughts don’t worry about the people, express yourself make people see your work in the way you want.
13.What is yourfavorite sport?
Cricket always.
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MyQuestions : –
1. Mention the names of any five bloggers along with their site links who are your favourites and why, explain each individually.
2. What makes you or anyone beautiful human being, ?
3. What could be your second choice as a profession?
4. The Dream You have seen but you failed to accomplish?
5. Your Insecurities.
6. What is the hidden story which is yet to tell to your very own family.
7. How do you relate your life with Bollywood’s characters?
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Okay so I nominate everyone of you as I hate picking people, you all can make a formal post or even answer through comments, yes you may answer all the 20 questions.
If You don’t try it for the one last time, you may regret for lifetime,
I know you may have seen enough of heartbreaking moments, I know somewhere you deserved a better space in life in every prospect,
I know the failures are haunting you and you are dying in every moment.
This is very painful, this is very disheartening, this makes you feel that you are no more an individual who can live a life with all sort of satisfaction.
It hurts you even more when you become a loser with having every prospect of a winner within, but being the one who never tried hard to change the dynamics.
The people who loose with any strong opponent is always happy than the people who loose with none other than themselves and their own dreadful mindset.
They don’t try , they don’t fight they leave things for someone else or even for god to come and help,
They lack effort not the talent, they lack persistence And may be motivation,
Please find people who need a push to fight for themselves,
they do realize that they are slowly diminishing their dreams and life, but they don’t react at all.
It happens when you or anyone is going through dark psychic passage, or even with those who are not serious in life. Tell them , discuss with them regarding the same,
Help them, make them do it for one first time or last time so that they could never feel bad when they turn back and look how they lived.
Trying , fighting, Putting Your Best even you loose by the report card is far more satisfying than regretting for life for not even trying once though being gifted with enormous talent.
It is a crime, as you are putting everyone down, along with yourself, Try And Try again , it’s more satisfying than sitting and thinking that should have tried!
Well I am writing about it today , but I actually wanted to write even before, I don’t know how many of you agree with me and what are your opinions about it,
but i really feel sad so sharing my views
Guys , Nowadays the WordPress readers are not readers any more, they are doing their formalities , why I am saying this because, I have observed it from a long time,
The readers are reading a full length 3500+ words story in just 4 seconds of being published,
I still don’t know what sort of talent it is and how they read it ,
if they actually read it in that particular duration of time , then it’s more than a miracle for me, and I would like to learn that special power what they have ,
but if they don’t read (Obviously they don’t Read) and like it without reading a single line with the reasons better known to them, is very disheartening to me,
I always want people to read it regardless of their choices of likes or feedback, but they should read it first.
It may be satisfactory to some, but not to me, I don’t have any fantasy for Number Of likes , comments etc
I want to make it clear please don’t like without reading it,
This is a cheat to yourself first, Then to the Writer.
And yes I want to add one more thing , this is not with everyone , but yes many of us are of such mindsets who have a knack of pleasing people for their choice, or revert . (like to get a like back.)
Which I hate the most, The process should be read then react if needed,
and we all know how much time it takes to read 500 words, 1000 words, and 4000 words for any human being, you can’t complete it in just seconds.
please avoid this practice if you are of such kind.
And enjoy this space for knowing perceptions, observations, opinions, thoughts, stories, and creations etc.
Don’t contaminate it like any other social networking platform. The uniqueness of this platform makes it what it is.
And If they think they haven’t been noticed than they are making mistake.
We all know who is genuinely reading and reaching towards our posts, and who is not.
Please this is my sincere request to read my posts, with your interest of reading, not for anything else,
and react after reading even if you haven’t liked it just put your words in the comment section and help Me to learn more and write even better.
I hope my words are making sense to all. As I feel my concern is not wrong.
I am seriously looking for a free lancing project, and I want to know more regarding the same,
I have done some free lancing content writing thing few years ago,and I want to do it again,
It has nothing to do with lockdown,
i want to make it clear that if I find everything smooth and positive I would prefer to stick with it, as long as can,
I know many of my friends are doing it,
They are doing Free lancing content writing , From Years.
I could have done the same through the job portals, but I have preferred this way, as I want everyone of you to know,
so that you people could help me with what you have.
So, all those readers/bloggers who know about it or have such contacts please kindly extend the details to me, either through the comments or by directly mailing me, (Ask The Email Id if you don’t find)
And Regarding the Capabilities, I have nothing to hide, You may find everything what you want to know about me and the writing versions of mine,
I have always preferred in learning and moulding as per the situations demanded,
so I hope I could do the best with what I have .
Just Let me know if anyone of you could find something Handy.
Hope You all are doing good in your life, And staying at home for your own good.
We all are fighting against the common enemy called Corona Virus,which is a global pandemic , and the Only solution we have right now is staying at home, obeying our government’s agenda, and living a life with all the parameters of WHO ,Like Frequent Hand washing, avoiding social gatherings, etc.
And yes if you are capable enough don’t shy to donate at Prime Minister Relief Fund, even any other way also.
Please Do charities to the ones who are facing hardships for their livelihood.
Don’t Spread or believe the fake news, Please educate people to avoid violating lockdown, in the best possible way,
Take care of the senior citizens and the little kids with utmost responsibility,
Please try to eat good healthy diet, and add a physical Activity in your daily life, it could be yoga, exercise, Dance etc,
Dear, Whenever I am with You, I Find a New Me. My newness puzzles me, I am different with you, or you make me a different person, ?
You may notice that I stare at you with a constant eye contact, Some say that I have an intoxicated eyes, but I feel that I get intoxicated with your eyes, I see you with my still eyes, and With a blush n smile which has lot of satisfaction, may be because you look so pure, and I am always attracted to the things which are real and not contaminated, We just do the general talks, but for me it works like a motivational speech, I don’t know why you always make me realize that I am not what I have been till I met you, you make me think I am different, Am I different or I am just not what I have been .? Whatever It is I Think I am the best version of mine when I am with you.
Some Mornings, you just want to stay on bed, and you just want to lay there, you don’t care what the clock says, you don’t think about the daily routine,
You take it as a need to feel good, like you never felt of having it, you want to sleep more and more though you actually don’t sleep,
You have the node of listening everything what happens out there, but you prefer to be inside the blanket, sometimes with the folding of legs, and some times with one sided sleeping posture,
It happens more in the winter days where you just can’t bare the mighty cold shivering conditions,
it happens quite often when you are taking leave or it is a holiday,
It is both today, a Sunday and of course it’s winter, I have to say that it feels lethargic somewhere but who cares, I don’t care .
staying on bed inside the blanket, laying not sleeping, listening not reacting, and posting a new post is not that bad as it looks ..
As it is winters with minus degree Centigrades around with chilled breeze, and also Sunday so it is actual quite cool to sleep for some long hours,
the kind of relaxation the body needs,
And in between all this lazy mornings you may even plan your best schedule for the coming hours, days,weeks,and months,
Infact a good soothing music, with the love of your life could bring some unmatched happiness, and unfold some hidden fantasies..
And the ones who are not being accompanied by their partners or are singles have their own ways to enjoy.. 🙂
We are quite different here on being lazy, we have our ways to do things differently,
Some prefer to have phonecalls by being under blanket,
Some can have long chats with their friends, lover, &any other as well.
some are wrapped that they could look scary as well. As a part of them is visible and you have to find the rest like a jigsaw puzzle. The can sleep in impossible posture .
Some can sit but they can’t leave the cushion if blanket, they look bloody cute, they may tap limitless naps as well,they can sleep sit eat and talk at the same time.
Hope you Guys are doing Good, This Sunday morning has been quite Different so far, not like the regular ones ,
As I woke up early in the morning and went for having a good inhale of oxygen , around 6kms of brisk walk with headphones & quality music has been really nice.
And then sat for more than 2 hours in direct sun light, it really feels good. And in between this, I thought to write to share my views about the current state of world cricket and also know your views about the same if any.
Guys Don’t you think Cricket is not at it’s very best as it has been over the years, though the different boards are trying hard to bring back the old cricket excitement back,by bringing Day & Night test matches, Pink Ball Test Matches , T10 Cricket ,100 Balls cricket etc, But still we can’t find the same what we observed during the days of early 90’s, 2k’s etc when we had the likes of super stars in every game, be it Australia ,India Pakistan or even West Indies, etc though it is always been team game but we can’t discard the personal rivilaries of the individuals, though it may be dramatically conceptualized by the media.
Even in this generation of Cricket we have superstars but the quality of cricket is not the same in all the teams,
teams like Srilanka South Africa , west indies, Pakistan, Bangladesh etc are not in their best phase of cricket they don’t have proper teams to compete in global tournaments, no matter what we bring to Cricket but it is always the players who bring the excitement, world cricket is struggling to bring the best competitive cricket only few teams are good and looks like an even teams on paper whereas remaining teams are not even good of the opponent’s B- team .
And yes we are having too much of cricket through out the years, we have T20World cups, 50Over world cups, IPL ,CPL,BPL,BBL etc with so many bilateral series which even make it overdose of cricket .
Also we don’t have Lara ,Sangakara,Murali, Akhtar,ABD,etc’s in cricket nor we have their so called replacements, as we do even watch for stars , it is not good for the world cricket as we have selective matches to watch as non one would prefer to watch a match which don’t have any contest.
And their is no other team than Afghanistan who looks prominent from the new test playing nations. Though they also need to get better, and their are only 10-12 playing nations out of which only few are good to be on head to head clash.
I strongly feel that it’s slowly loosing it’s charm though we all want it to prosper more but we can’t stay unaware of the current state of cricket.
Teams like Srilanka , south Africa, West Indies, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Zimbabwe, Kenya , etc should come back harder and raise their level of cricket to have the excitement back.
Oh the thick big glasses on my eyes don’t look good to the girls,
They say I look like an uncle..
Oh the dark skin tone of mine don’t attract to the girls ,
They say, they can’t even see me sometimes..
Oh the lean and thin body of mine , more like a Skelton , don’t get appreciated by girls..
They say , They want muscular guys..
They want Prince charming but with more the looks of the Prince ..
That’s it !!
Do I look like a Prince ? ,
Yes of course ..
But to me, and to my mother and sometimes in my mirror…
They all want someone with good physique, and handsome looks..
They treat me like a tree, as they don’t even notice when I stare at them.
They laugh at my walk, also at my talk.
They make fun of my clothes .
They are good in fact better than good..
But they should treat me at least a human..
Human with all the feelings, and flaws..
The Real Prince doesn’t require all the attributes , to get liked they get liked for being what they are.
Oh they don’t even know that Thin, Lean, Fat, Short, Tall,Dark,Ugly, or weird are not what we can demand but yes we can diminish these tiny things of appearance with our nature , character and humanity.
And The Real Prince is always about character, Humanity, Humbleness etc. Hope they learn before falling and failing in life..
So, Then I have realized that I can’t be a writer as it needs lot more than just writing good and real,
As It requires a lot of materialistic things, and many more fabricated insights, one can’t be a writer if he/she is willing to write with the pure emotions and substance which makes him feel to write,
They may put words and also may compile it , but it would not be enough to get attention and readers, you need more spices,
And by having such spice you may tend to loose your original idea of the article or plot,
You may write but you will never get satisfied with your work as you have opted for the additives of the trend.
You may even find your self in a state where you are doing your work but for the choice of others,
The tears , pains , emotions, happiness, sacrifice, selfishness, tragedy etc etc of your work will only get attention if it has some layering of everything in trend be it a title of the article or the visualization of it,
sometimes you may need to promote it like a salesman, the original description of pain and happiness with the words came from heart may not by liked by the readers, they have their choice of interest and it has nothing to do with the effort you kept for writing,
You and your writeup will be discarded within sometime. As you may not had the ingredients they were looking for..
You can’t be what they want , as you can’t diminish your creativity..
But you can’t survive with what you feel and write ,as everyone has options more than the choice..
Then why you can’t even react to Ganesh chaturthi..
Not Even to Shri Krishna Janamashthami..
Infact you people stayed calm and unresponsive to festivals like Diwali and The Dussera..
This is so strange for me to understand , also to figure out that why is it so..
As you say you are not communal and hate communalism , like i do..
And You say secularism is something with which you relate and stand by the best of your strength.
But I don’t know by which parameters you consider yourself to be the secular Indian, as you behave like a stranger to our own festivals..
about which we all have been taught in the schools and also our movies have shown us celebrating our festivals together be it Eid or Christmas or even Diwali..
Then why I find it different from your end.. ?
Why this hypocrisy ?
Don’t spread negativity..
We are Indians and we should stick together by the roots..
we all are brothers irrespective of our religion And religious belief..
That day with some tears , she came to him and said, I feel sorry to you for being so helpless , I am sorry, I know you love me a lot and i really don’t need any evidence as I can feel it,
but I never loved you dear ,
yes this is what the truth is, I just wanted to be their with you till my parents search someone for me to get married,
yes I never loved you, I just acted to be in love with you, I loved your company and everything you did for me ,
yes I never thought About this day, but I should have thought about it,
I am very bad I know,
but this is what the truth is,
I just wanted to get along in a busy status of relationship till my marriage as my friends were teasing me for living a life without boyfriend,
so I did all that for which I am feeling sad.. I know I played with your emotions… But I am sorry..
As I know you have been serious for me and I was just doing it for fun and showoff. I am sorry ,it is really bad and embarrassing…
And the guy was listening without believing….
With some tears and confusion.
***Don’t Play with Emotions..
***How should the guy react to it ? And what would be your reaction if you find yourself at such situation?
They asked me few things about an issue, actually they wanted me to answer it either in a spicy way or they wanted to put me in some troublesome state,
I smilingly said why you people are asking me this.? Don’t you believe their stated truths, Or you feel that I need to say my version.
They said we want to know your side.
I replied, There is no my side or their side, there is truth and their false.
So you have to see what you take from their talks,
We don’t believe them, they said.
I answered I believe them, as I don’t care about anything now , I have nothing to loose. And they may be putting the right things forward, I don’t know what they are saying though, but even I accepted their lies, I can’t do much either.
As even don’t know the real truth. And I have nothing to do with the truth now, as they did what they wanted to, and the damage couldn’t be recovered ever, but yes they have been good in chopping and presenting things in their suited way.
But, I don’t have any interest in giving justification to anyone, or to put my side on the issue. As I am not here to prove Anything to anyone, I know my side I am right by best of thoughts, and deep down they also know what is right and what is not right, who is culprit and who is not, and above all there is someone who knows everything and he is looking at everything, to whom we call Almighty, The God,
Moreover I heard that, they are too good and the world is too bad ,and I am too bad and the world is too bad , as per the talks what I came to know from the people in between me and them.
Anyways We all are going to pay for the deeds we do , if not today then tomorrow for sure.
if you are good you will receive good things from god , if bad then you have to be ready for the outcome, you can’t get away from your punishments.
So , I don’t care what they are saying as I am only answerable to the god , but in my case it’s God who has to answer me, as he may don’t have any question and I have many to ask him. And it would start from Why me? ?
I hope i will get the answer,!!!
Anyways you are free to think and consider me anything you want as liberty is there for everyone.
But my identity is best known to me and god. Likewise truth is better known to God , culprit and victim.
But if they say I am culprit , then yes I am culprit . nothing to objectify or even feel bad. As they are not the decision makers . so why to think or care about it.
Then they smiled and said you said nothing in particular but said everything.
but it is something which is hitting my heart and mind,
I think my heart is not willing to accept myself as a failure and somehow my mind has came to a conclusion of compensatory happiness.
Being amongst the losers with some reasons, explanations , and of course few excuses has been the story so far,
Loosing without a trial with lot of distractions and few strong barriers are something with which I am dealing from years,
LOSER, is a big tag.
And I think I am accepting it somewhere in my heart with sadness, its not that I never had the ingredients to conquer, but it has been somehow my negligence with some hard lucks, obligations and poor decisions.
Yes it has affected me, my dreams, my aspirations, my happiness and my searching satisfaction.
I am good at this and that but not enough stabilized to put it for some productive outcome ,
Outcome in context of success, And successful satisfaction.
I hate the confusion, hate that a lot as it ruined me, still I feel a compensatory choice I preferred for sustainment.
As sustainment is an important thing I dared to avoid it once and paid the price for that dare,
so may be I am not good at dreaming or my dreams are just dreams I should not try to feel and live it, I figured out.
Yes it is saddens you at your heart , and you start questioning your own life,
like may be god has made me for this and not that and I am trying to hard to go beyond god’s decision.
Anyways I Still feel sad when people come and say you have been so good ,
you could have done this and that with ease, you should have been there we always felt that you are something different and thought you to be at some high to look,
we still have high expectations,
you can still start and deliver with ease, you have the spark , you just have to focus and focus at like everything, we still have high expectations from you.
And listening all that makes me feel so bad for being so unjustified to their expectations,
it feels good to have high expectations but it breaks you into pieces when they themselves say you spoiled it man with your own, and failed and you are a loser!
And then our mind and heart have some serious sadness with which we may not cope up.
As it takes us to negativeness, when you start comparing yourself with your expectations and with your contemporaries. And you find yourself now where.
You actually fail when you question your self or start thinking more than you should.
But having being said that,
I think life gives you chances to bounce back and roll it like a boss,
I am still seeking and trying to find out that one chance to make it appropriate with my life and the people around it.
I hope god has left one more good thing to share and hopefully I would accept it without any blunders this time.
Today I am here with something to discuss which you may like , or may not but let’s discuss it.
Guys, we often see such people in our daily life who have the tendency of speaking more and also speaking less, and it actually varies from individual to individual as per their own choices,
But there is one other kind of people who speak relevantly good but have the tendency of showing disinterest to your talks, they will be available to you but with half of their heart, even if they are not half hearted but there traits will make you think so,
they will give smiles, as reply, they may give you one liners sometimes even one words, they make reaction with expressions, they may listen but pretends to not listen, or they will change the topic at their will, which is actually disheartening to the individual who is eagerly waiting for a respected response,
It actually makes you think that this man/woman don’t want to talk or may be not interested to talk or may have some attitude issues. Which is very much okay by their observations, as they are receiving such vibes from the other end so they may presume that,
Even I don’t want to be in a conversation where the individual is finding words on instalments, I speak with my heart and also with a reason, and want the partner to speak well, and react whenever needed, not sure how you people think about it,
But my opinion is this , and to have a healthy conversation, the two individual should have enough interest to speak and listen, one should not speak alone and vice versa.
And it has nothing to do with the choice of context or with the subject of talks, they have the tendency of speaking in that way as they prefer it, regardless of the subject of talks.
Of course I am not saying that everyone is blessed with good speaking skills or talkativeness, but it is not about the limited skills or the other, the individuals who act unavailable or who react late or selective with responses are actually Bad at listening skills and of course with the speaking skills, even with the reactive skills ,
they should learn and improve, as it is actually a graveyard for themselves, as they are actually creating barriers between their loved ones with bits and pieces of words.
Like they sound RUDE,FAKE,And ANNOYING!
And someone with really bad Etiquettes,
And no one prefers to talk with a person who has 3-4 words for every single thing you say, or may prefer to talk when it is needed the most with some sadness.
They say I am unavailable being available to them,
They say you can’t be like this to us,
I try to convince them,but they don’t listen,
They are Right in their ways, I have to be with them if I am with them,
But I am with my love interest,
If not being next to her always then through my phone,
I feel good for the fact that she feels good when I am connected to her either next to her with holding a hand or through calls or even chats,
My friends don’t like my life style and priority,
But I don’t want to see her sad, as she feels sad and bad when I don’t message or call her and don’t lift her call,
I lie her sometimes that yes you wished me the first birthday wish, though sometimes she is second as my mother wishes before than her may be a fraction of second earlier,
Even if its a lake or I am at some public place I text her, as she wants to feel the ambiance with me and my words. I like it, its not that I am not enjoying it.
But its a cheat with my friends.
She enjoys everything of my talks ,
Even my sick poor cheap jokes, at which no one can laugh.
And of course my way of care,
She just love talking to me,
She says ” I will be fine I don’t need a doctor, you are the doctor and the medicine is our conversation.” When she gets sick.
I Remember that ,
I talked to her through calls and texts for around 20hrs continuously with a charger plugged in, whenever needed.
She loved the gesture, and even felt good to be with her when she needed me.
I have to talk as she my love and I can’t see her sad,
After knowing that her sadness is my unavailability and lesser communication.
But what to do with my friends ,they are not wrong either.
They want me as their friend as I have been,
She asks me to pick one sometimes,
somehow I skip the question with an ice cream or some deep discussion about my career, but i am worried with the picking of one.
I may pick her over them by being a selfish lover but I wouldn’t be Happy with that, I know as my friends are also important .!
Love them and Love her also. Both have their importance but yes one priority is not happy when I am with the another priority.
***We can’t decide who comes first and who is second, of course it’s both which make us what we want to be, so its important to make them understand their importance in our life, one can’t be another and vice versa. Both are differently important in life. It’s harsh and unfair to pick and choose.
why this happened ,
R Prakash Rao 
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