Yes this is what we see in today’s kind of love. People just wait and wait for others to come first and approach for their love.
Even though they know what and where they are wrong but they feel going first and speaking would diminish their so called self-respect.
Look , I strongly feel that one should know the exact difference between self respect and ego.
There is a very fine line in between the both, so normally people think they are holding there self respect but they are actually doing wrong they are living with ego and make it grow more and more. And in the end they ruin their life .
They should not do that , what I strongly feel, as the trees which have the tendency to bend a bit end up living long, as long straight unbendable trees usually chopped and used for other purpose (Bamboo).
So, One should look beyond all these in life, egoism is not healthy for anyone especially in love it is very dangerous, people should preserve their love and nurture it better rather than spoiling it with their childish egoistic approach,
Going first and solving differences does not make you a small person, it makes you brave and bigger than your partner.
yes make sure that you don’t do anything beyond that margin of self-respect.
Dignified measures are good to sort it out ,
Make sure that you show them mirror if they are wrong and accept your mistakes as well , have proper communication and give them time to grow as an individual.
Hello and Namaste to all the beautiful people out there, Wishing you all a very Happy Vijay Dashami and Dusshera, may all your wishes come true. may all your worries get vanished and you find the real happiness of your life.
Hopefully you all are healthy and doing good.
Guys ,After the overwhelming response of the previous book “Stories For You” ,
We are presenting the new book of the author.
The book is titled as “DROPLETS OF LOVE” , Published by Mr. R Prakash Rao, which is now live and available in India and also in different parts of the world.
This is the 2nd book of the Author.
The book is compiled and crafted with all the noticeable efforts and hard work.
The book does not hold references to any.
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Well before writing anything on this topic I think I have to be honest that I am very angry today. And I don’t know how to control it.
In fact I am against of controlling it is a very important emotion. I have my anger issues which has been the reason of my various fights, arguments, failures, etc. In fact I left few of my previous jobs for the same issue. And I think it is very much with me as I treat it as my body part or my important weapon from the armory.
Although I don’t want to use it but it is something which comes to me quite often then not.
May be I am short tempered. But what I have seen that my anger does not harm anyone as it only raises the modulation of my voices and even make it louder so that it can be audible to the person who is in the 2nd street. I feel bad about it . but yes I have to say that I am very much under control of not being violent. Yes I do get irritated and in between I may say something very harsh but the other side is that even at that level I don’t abuse or cross the line in a verbal spat.
But whatever I do I feel bad about it as I think it is very bad to be so bad on anyone. But I can’t help it at that time. As I am not that sense of thinking something to which I feel afterwards.
I may hit hard on something and hurt my self ,it could be a desks, wall or even a my head. Usually I use to punch with my right hand on the surfaces near by or at my forehead.
Sometimes I even damage the furniture stuffs like chairs, tables etc. It is very bad. But I can’t help it.
I have been like this from my childhood ,my mother told me that I used get very angry if didn’t get what I have been promised to get. My face used to get red and it is even now the same.
So the point is it is good to stay with your emotions even it is anger but the way it comes to us it should have some control. How can we control it? More of you is good as I believe in being original .
Tell me something to control it or to manage it in a better so that it could come and go with very ease. Anger issues are there but yes I don’t hurt anyone I have that notch of being watchful even at extreme level so that I don’t use a bad word and don’t get violent on anyone yes in between this I hurt myself.
My anger stays with me and it plays within until it is not burs-ted on anyone.
Your suggestions are very helpful …please do share it on the comment box. As it is not just a blogging post it is my serious problem with which I really want to overcome.
Hope you all are doing good in your life , as i really want you all to be in the best of your health and mental state.
Guys today i have been thinking about the stature and the credible status of Bollywood , and i really feel sad for the circumstances it has been , the recent suicides of some of the most adorable and talented actors and the drama around their demise has been very strange and shameful, which is very sluggish with the best of my knowledge.
but when i see the last one and half years of entertainment world , i only feel cheated and betrayed by the so called actors and their closed ones, we have seen the involvement of Mr. Raj Kundra in the pornography case and also in the IPL Betting case.
And then the never ending list of involvement of bollywood actors in drug peddling and consumption , we have seen the actors like Deepika Padukone , Sara Ali khan , Shraddha kappoor, Rakul Preet singh, Rhea chakraborthy along with her brother and yes Aryan Khan the son of famous bollywood actor shah Rukh Khan. Of course few of them have been are behind the bars but most of them are still in the process of investigation or may be the investigation agency could not have found any evidences or they were not enough to prove them guilty,
we also heard the noise of involvement form the televison industry with some big names from the business like Bharti singh and her husband. with due respect we have also some references of the south Indian film industry but they were are not as it has been form the bollywood,
although with Aid of some of the most reputed lawyers they are safe and they are still working in the same field but as an audience we have to think do we still trust them ?
do we really feel them are someone who have been asked for investigation without a purpose.
do we really think that they have been targeted by some of the people for their political or ideological benefits ? which we usually get to listen who are supporting these actors or who defend the bollywood,
we do have our own brain we can sense that everything is not for an political agenda as some forces are there to destroy the youth of our country and by availing drugs in the streets by small kids or by some unconventional means they are trying to make our country weak and addictive to the drugs which could hamper us like never before,
it is sad that few still there political interests in the entire investigation and raids.
but i feel that the term called bollywood has lost its charm and attraction, people have slowly developed hatred which we usually hear in the general discussions in our local gardens, this hatred is also very reasonable not at all objectionable as they are the so called reel heroes they have extra responsibility for being what they are there many followers to them who follow them blindly, they are worshiped in some places, but if this is what the truth is then i think it is the common people who have been cheated the most for believing everything what there favorite stars said,
but the broader picture is that there are many families who are completely dependent on the film industry for their survival if this how we all are going to create a kind of rejection and question for all the valid reasons where and what they will do to survive. i can only feel bad for everyone who followed them and who is associated from the industry and have to face some hatred for things they have done wrong somewhere .
I know what I am saying, I don’t need any other individual to think in the same way if they have issues ,but yes I would not take a step back to put my thoughts on my blog. If someone likes my view is very much well and good if not than it is also fine to me.
Today I felt that I need to put some glare on the current mindset of the people towards the boys. It is not actually how it has been portrayed , we do have heart which beats and breaks at the time of it occurrence..
We do feel bad when we are being questioned and underlined because of the fact that we are boys.. What we can do if few of them are cheats and culprits we all are not the same. The same is their in the girls all are not selfless and Innocent few are very selfish and cunny , they can destroy the life of the individual without a single hesitation, and they would live their life with full of smile and happiness..
We are not what it looks from the outlook of the so called society leaders.. We are beyond that.
We do cry for the loved ones,
We do feel the pain,
We do feel insomniac when we loose the love,
We have our sentimental setbacks,
Yes , we hide it in general , we act to cope up with the demands of life. We feel lonely as everyone does but it is just that we have that baggage of being strong .
The pain is always the same as it is in the case of a girl being betrayed by a boy,
We are not different.
We do want love in return for the immense blind emotional love we do.
And we also get angry and depressed if someone cheats..
We are also possessive , we do feel the same kind of feeling inside the heart if some other individual is around the girl we love..
Don’t Judge us by what it has been said frequently by the people as we know that all Girls are not same and Yes All Boys are not the same..
It is threat to the boys what i personally feel,
As we have been Questioned ,Judged ,Categorized and even Humiliated for the Love and even if the Love fails.
What one can do if the person he loved has cheated him?
What was his mistake ?
How they can presume the exact mindset of the individual without even knowing him?
Hi friends ..News from the center is that I have been nominated for the Unique Blogger Award .
Well thank you so much Pritu for showing such faith and gratitude on me. I am really poor as compared to others in blogging I am writing here for my satisfaction and i don’t think i deserve any award but I am here for her trust.
please friends follow and acknowledge her immense talent!
So let me answer her tough questions in which i am really poor from my school days..
1. If you had to choose Between reading and writing what would you choose?
Ans. Well it is a difficult one but I will choose Reading as I can know what the views/perceptions are there of others.
2. who is that blogger who comments on your post and makes your day?
Ans. Well for me every comment is special and everyone’s feedback is important but I will say pritu as that one blogger as she has nominated me for this beautiful award by giving 1st position in the nominees(safe).
3. If you would get the chance of speaking in front of your country what would be the topic you choose to speak?
Ans. Well if I will ever get a chance to speak in front of my country or may state or my district or my colony or in front of this world I will always prefer to talk about loveandthebeautyoflove..As love is my favorite topic.
4. What is the most hilarious moment of your life ? Describe it?
Ans. Well there are so many moments which are very hilarious in my life its tough to pick one but as per the task I have to do so once i have been stopped by a kinner in the local train and she touched my cheeks and said if you will ask me I will give you on any given day ! I was just 16 at that time i replied what? She said i will tell you give me your number then somehow my mother came and i had a lucky escape And I was along with my family and friends..they still tease me about that day.
5. What is the best thing you like about yourself?
Ans. This is the toughest question for me as even I have to know that what I like or any one like about me? I think I like my confidence level a lot. As that is the only thing I have may be gifted but yes I can do the toughest thing in the world if someone says that I can do it.
So thanking you all for your time I hope I have given my best in answering as I am very poor in that infact I hate those who asks questions to me. But today I loved it may be its because of WordPress!
Thanks to all.
My questions to the nominees are?
1. Which is your favorite ..cricket or Bollywood ?
2. Who is your crush on WordPress?
3. Who is the most irritating person in your personal life (name) and why?
4. Three changes you want to see in WordPress and why?
5. Name the person who has led you down by not nominating you till date?