What’s wrong With you dear?

Hello Everyone..

How many of you agree to the fact that sometimes advising someone could become your mistake…

You may be doing something for the betterment of the individual by taking some unauthorized ownership which may hurt them if you have been enforcing your views on them. They may feel that you are taking their liberty from them to do things as per them…

And you being unaware of the thinking would give more suggestions which may be good enough but due to the fact that you are hurting their ego. They may ask you who the hell are you to give such suggestions..?

In fact I agree and understand their perception also. as no one want to feel lesser and its hard to see that people take opinions and views sportively…

Nevertheless its good to have a barrier of No I don’t need to do this…Rather then feeling bad of witnessing harshness…

But if you are advising then you will think that the person will praise you or will acknowledge you some Or the other way..

The minimum maturity level and ethics is not there…. Which we normally expect from the people to whom we normally like and admire…but if they led you down then you will feel that the expectation was mistake….

If anyone is advising you something then then you should be able enough to take it positively as no one has a free time in this busy world to advice you. Its purely selflessness .

he/she is advising you because they are your well wishers. You are not paying them to do so.

Is it mandatory that one should always say the good things and put the scope of improvement under the carpet…!

I look my mirror for enhancing my looks.it may show me some dark circles but it does not mean that I will break that mirror…!

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