One Day Everyone of Us will reach to certain Ages where we have to consider ourselves retired at least by the physical contributions, society standards, and also as per the demands of family,
Everyone is very highly inclined at the working ages where one have command on the every parameters of life be it is a financial thing or a Any other responsibility ,
but when we reach to the stage where we have been considered as retired by social standards, we have to get dependent on every single thing on our kids , be it is a financial need or any other requirements ,
sometimes kids have this realization that from this month my father/mother doesn’t have the same job so I have to be their for fulfilling all the needs but sometimes we do forget this just by a fault or even by lapse or unavoidable conditions,
at that stage we do observe how after all those days of work and having money all around life changes,
but we just forget that we can’t afford everything what we feel to have , it is quite scratchy to ask sometimes as ego does comes,
sometimes people over think and consider themselves as worthless ,
we do see that same person who merely went to buy a packet of candles has started purchasing the households and grocery, shall we say time teaches..
Or we can say they do want to contribute in the way they could. It is painful to observe it .
But yes it is a learning thing even at such days because the more you are creating barrier,
you find your self in a very doubtful situation it is also a thing to understand that one should never get too dependent on anyone at least to cope up with his own self respect.
And yes the one who has responsibility of individuals of certain old age people and our parents should always prioritize their needs on fore front.
Life is smooth and Fine when we don’t have any curtains in between, As We do find self created barriers which is sometimes so strong that it becomes Unbreakable.
Planning Life is Not Always Possible, But Prioritizing Life is Always Possible.