Confusion or Laziness?

Good Noon People,

Well I am in a state of confusion, or I am actually delaying it because of my laziness I don’t know, but seriously would like to know your suggestions or clarity about the situation.

And the situation is so silly that you may laugh on me. OK let me reveal what it is .

Actually my hair has grown a bit more than my usual expectations as I avoided this Sunday after Sunday, and so on, and my parents , my colleagues and my seniors are against it, few of them like a lot though, few pass some comment like ‘Lo Model Agya ‘ , ‘ Desi John Abraham ‘etc etc ,few see me with a weird look , few say slightly Dude you are professional engineer ,

And I am like Yes I know.

But as I took leave today due to some health issues, my mother is like go cut your hair otherwise you have to sleep outside today etc etcetera.

Now, I am very much confused of it as I like my hair but also when it is messy I feel I should chop it, also I feel like OK I can cut it next week or tomorrow, I don’t want to cut or I want to cut but I am lazy enough to avoid it, I don’t Know.

By the way I don’t even shave for months right from college days.

I think more percentage of boys especially engineers are like me, they like to live untamed, wild and laziness…. or I am the special case.

Anyways , Drop your opinions about this seriously silly issue, and yes I posed for this pic 2weeks ago.

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Say No To Suffocation!

Good Morning Bloggers, I have some heat within my heart so just thought to pen down it.

You don’t need to do something which is not giving you the comfortness, either it is your work or a relation. The more you bend the more they will bend you.

Even the rubber has some limit of deformation, after that it breaks, we are humans, we also have that stretching limit but we need to find out the breaking limit so that it does not get too late.

What if they don’t like by saying NO or STOP to them? At least it will satisfy yourself that you haven’t been a puppet.

It may look bad to some,and some may feel you have a radical attitude. But it does not mean that what they feel or think is right. You have your limitations and you know it better , sometimes saying No is necessary. As you may get dragged into a shallow space where you find yourself suffering from Suffocation.

It is good to stretch your limits and perform the best of what you can , it is good to be the GoTo Man , and someone’s yes man but it has a certain boundary.

Everything is beautiful when it is under some dignified layer, if you feel that it is crossing that layer then there is no point of whatever you do,

you can’t loose your individuality for anyone , you need not be feel like a puppet just for being good to him. You are the boss of your life no one can decide anything about you,

if you have done your work with complete dedication you just need to fold your hands and leave the rest to god. It will convey your approach to fruitful result.

You really don’t need any certification from anyone for your work. You are the performer ,you are the Judge.

Teach them are nothe right way if they need it.

Unfolding to your expectations is good but it is not necessary to dig the entire well to prove your mettle.

Sometimes it is necessary to take stand and say STOP so that it would not reach the level slavery.

Say no to this suffocation.

If you know you are right then go with your emotions ..no need to hold back.

Just because that someone’s is having some years of experience or some off colored hair it is not necessary that he/she is right in every prospect.

Also if you don’t feel that you are not that good at some specific work it is important to say No I Can’t! . There is no shame in accepting your limitations ,it is a way of being realistic.

Everyone has some limits.

A plumber can’t become a doctor and vice versa. If the plumber accepts the challenge and does some surgery you may see some valve/knob inside the abdomen.

So, you don’t need to say yes I can/ will every time and feel suffocated during the proceedings and after the result.

Just be genuine to your work and the efforts.

You are human being who is having limitations.

And there is no shame in accepting it.

This is about my ideology and I strictly believe in this , and i would not care if anyone have any disagreement with it.

Love Harder!

Love Harder,

Love beyond the limits.

Love unconditionally.

Love Harder than yesterday.

Love Harder than he/she expected.

Love Harder than anyone.

Love harder so that they always have a smile.

Love harder than your partner loves .

Love harder to discard all the worries.

Love Harder to withstand by them forever.

You Know what, its worthy!

Love Harder.

HappyValentine’s